Ever wish you could show up as the coach you know you are, without the self doubt, judgment & procrastination?
You are in coaching because making a living through meaningful work is what drives you.
The light in their eyes when your clients had their “aha” moment.
When you helped them make huge changes that you KNOW they are capable of.
That’s why you got into coaching in the first place.
But dealing with that voice that says you need more experience, more training.
Feeling overwhelmed and not sure what to do & where to start.
Terrified you will get judged if you show up – and fail.
It’s such a pain in the ass that you end up feeling stuck most days.
IF YOU COULD MUTE THAT INNER GREMLIN AND BE IN YOUR POWER, YOU WOULD HAVE HAD A KICK ASS PRACTICE, TRANSFORMING LIVES AROUND THE WORLD.
Instead, this is what happens:
- Resistance and procrastination are the annoying houseguests you never wanted, but you don’t know how to boot them out
- You doubt if you really have the ability and experience to help your clients
- That constant worry of not getting enough clients? It’s causing you to drift from your zone of genius, and make decisions from a space of fear and worry rather than what’s aligned with your being.
- Show up and be seen by the world? It feels like people are going to judge you, and if you fail, they are gonna judge you even more.
And when you try to push through them,
- You feel even more pressure to “do”. You end up not doing what you need, telling yourself you will do it tomorrow. Tomorrow comes, but the cycle repeats.
- All the affirmations and positive thoughts don’t sink in as much as you thought it would…and the negative voice is STILL loud af.
Despite the additional training and courses, your self doubt’s still glaring at you, screeching, “There are others more experienced and better than you! Nobody’s gonna work with you!”
You KNOW you are diligent and have invested lots of time, effort and money to improve at all levels so you can be a better coach.
So why do you keep getting stuck?
What’s the disconnect here?
It’s NOT because you are lazy / not disciplined / following the wrong strategies.
It’s because your beliefs trigger a neurological response in your brain that unconsciously sabotages you, in a misguided attempt to save you.
Take marketing consistently.
Your brain says you need to get it done so you can attract more clients. And yet, you find yourself resisting and procrastinating.
Because what’s really going on is that you have these negative beliefs around it.
- You are afraid to show up because you are afraid of being judged.
- Marketing feels icky, overwhelming and you don’t know what to do.
- That you aren’t expert enough yet to talk about these things.
- You feel guilty for charging what you want because money feels bad and dirty.
- You have not run a business before and are terrified it won’t be successful.
And all these beliefs create negative feelings – of fear of being judged, fear of rejection and failure etc.
It doesn’t feel SAFE.
So when you think about marketing, your body triggers all of these layered beliefs and the related negative emotions.
And what happens in the brain, is that it signals to your amygdala (which assesses threats and risks) that doing this isn’t safe and puts you at risk.
And your amygdala, in an attempt to save you, overrides your frontal lobes (the part responsible for reasoning, decision making and planning) and STOPS you from showing up and marketing consistently.
Which is why “knowing logically” what needs to be done, and trying to will yourself to do it doesn’t work.
BECAUSE IT’S YOUR BELIEFS AND EMOTIONS THAT DETERMINE HOW YOU SHOW UP IN YOUR BUSINESS.
And it’s only in addressing these layered beliefs that trigger these emotions that you can shift into the powerful coach who transforms lives.
It’s possible to un-do these negative beliefs and move into your boss mode that’s aligned with your power.
Where you show up as the confident and transformative coach that you are.
And it’s pretty simple.
- We shift your beliefs and behaviors in a way that resonates with you by leveraging on your strengths, life experiences and your inner wisdom.
- We gain clarity on your vision, legacy and what your spiritual CEO feels like.
- We get you excited and aligned by creating a business that you love from this space of positivity and power.
I RECOMMEND SHAN AS A COACH ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU NEED MORE INSPIRATION, MOTIVATION, IDEAS AND CONFIDENCE IN LIFE.
In 2021, I reconnected with my dream job as a coach and started my business. Fortunately, I met Shan during this journey. She’s gifted with her fun and energetic energy. She has supported me to deal with my negative voices, old critical memories in fun, sustainable and effective ways.
Shan has a lot of corporate experience where she mentored me in the needed areas especially in the beginning of my business.
I really enjoy working with Shan. I feel so supported by her throughout our journey.
Introducing:
NEURO SOUL COACHING
NSC is about reprogramming your brain with new principles and behaviors that come from a space of integrity, positivity, and love – that is aligned with your strengths and values.
It’s a series of intensive 1:1 sessions where we work together to
- uncover your natural talents, strengths, and inner wisdom, and combine it to
- Come up with new thought patterns and generate solutions that’s aligned with who you are, and
- Creates positive momentum that gets you EXCITED about taking action.
Think of me as a magic bridge.
I help you connect with your true self – your potential, your strengths and your wisdom, so you can stand in your power, and take purposeful action that’s aligned with your true, powerful Self.
The NSC approach is a combination of my professional background as a social scientist for 15 years, with my experience in counseling & an MBCT practitioner for 9 years.
It blends science (positive psychology, solution focused therapy and neurology) with spiritual concepts (mindfulness and self compassion) to shift you into the powerful being that you are.
“WORKING WITH SHAN HAS BEEN FABULOUS. I HAVE HAD SO MUCH GROWTH. I HAVE BEEN ABLE TO MAKE PROGRESS.”
“When I started this journey, I was scared, I was overwhelmed, and mainly, I was, scared. And working with Shan has helped me take action, have a plan and be excited. Switching perspectives. Now when I do stuff for myself in my business, it’s not from a space of fear. It’s from a space of fun. It’s something that I am looking forward to.
And even the possibility of failure, is exciting to me. Because I know that even if I fail, there is something for me to learn. This has been a complete game changer for me, and I am thankful. It has been an incredible, incredible, incredible journey, and I mean that.”
Iris Hamilton, coach
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